To ban or not to ban social media for children? That is the question many countries are considering worldwide, starting with Australia
which, in December 2025 became the first to pass a law that excludes under-16s from some social media. The next month, the
UK Government announced a consultation on the issue. There are ongoing discussions around an EU digital minimum age for access to social media. And the debate continues to gain momentum in more and more countries, from Denmark,
France and Spain
to several US states, India,
Malaysia and
Indonesia.
Proponents for bans emphasise the need to safeguard children’s psychological and emotional well-being, promote healthy development, mitigate the exploitation of children’s personal data,
and empower parents to better guide their children’s online activities. Opponents of the bans, a group that perhaps counter-intuitively includes many children’s and online safety organisations,
argue that they limit children’s ability to exercise the full range of their rights, including the ability to develop, share and look for ideas, connect with others, organise themselves politically,
explore and shape their identities, and learn, play and more.
These arguments in favour and against social media bans illustrate an ongoing binary
approach to children’s place in the digital world, and it is difficult to talk about
the issue without reinforcing the divide in the debate. This alone points to the need
for a more nuanced and deliberative approach, one which critically examines things.
What if “to ban or not to ban” is the wrong question? And if it is, then where should
we start instead?
How do social media bans affect the debates on children and the digital environment?
One question always seems to run through the debates on children and the digital world:
should the approach focus on protecting children online or on empowering them to freely explore the world around them?
The problem with this question - which CRIN has
visited previously - is that it frames
the issue as
either/or. But this is a false dilemma: should children not be able to access
digital spaces
and be safe while doing so? These two things are not incompatible.
Yet what we are seeing is that, with a rising number of countries considering bans as
the apparent solution to the problems children face on social media, mainstream approaches
are prioritising protection over access and connection.
It is uncritically assumed that bans are the best way to achieve protection.
We have seen this prohibitionist argument before: it is regrettably
often made about
children. But bans bypass the whole conversation about what effective protection looks like.
Ban-solutionism - the belief that banning something is the same as solving it - promises
us safety but sidesteps the complicated reality of what children face and fails to define
the problem. To help us unpack this, we should be looking at the full range of children’s
rights, which covers the protection and empowerment of children, in all their complexity.
How should we approach a rights-based discussion on social media bans?
Examining the impact of social media bans on children requires an appreciation of
the full range of their human rights, with none existing in isolation or being more
important than others. The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child
(CRC) shows us the breadth of human rights that children have both online and offline, among which we find
children’s rights to protection from violence and protection from information and material
“injurious to their well-being”, as well as the rights to non-discrimination, freedom of
expression and information, free association and peaceful assembly, privacy, health,
education and development, culture, leisure and play. And what is fundamental about these
rights is that they are universal (they apply to all children), indivisible (no right is
more important than another), and interdependent (the realisation of one right depends on
the fulfilment of the others).
Considering this broad range of rights, the impact of social media bans is complex.
This is consistent with available evidence, which
does not support “simple or universal
claims that social media use is inherently harmful”. Some social media is indeed toxic
and it can be a tool for committing the most serious crimes against children,
but there is nothing about the concept of social media itself that makes it so.
How do social media bans impact children’s rights?
Take protection from violence. The assumption is that banning children from social
media could shelter them from contact with perpetrators of online child sexual abuse or
protect them from the mental violence caused by financial sexual extortion.
In reality, bans could also prevent children who are already facing violence from finding advice and
understanding from peers and professionals in online support groups accessed via social media.
Such children could feel increased shame and isolation, which might stop them from seeking
help altogether, thereby leaving them vulnerable to continued violence. There are ways to circumvent bans by keeping users’
circumstances (location or age) private. But the assumption will be that most children will not use social media following a ban,
which removes the incentive to make platforms safe for children in general. Younger children who will manage to access social
media somehow will find themselves in even lower-quality environments than now. Some might even be driven to the dark web.
But even supposing the majority do respect the prohibition, bans create a “cliff edge”
when children turn the age required to join social media. Birthdays are not magic moments
of sudden wisdom and resilience: having only known a low-tech, rudimentary, sanitised
digital space, children will gain immediate access to high-risk social media - but without
having gradually developed the skills to navigate it safely and, as per the CRC, in a manner
consistent with their evolving capacities. Welcome to the jungle.
Next, take mental health. Social media can make children compare themselves to others,
increase their fear of missing out, keep them in echo chambers, put them under pressure
to reply and keep up to date, feed them overwhelming or triggering content and cause sleep
problems. Some social media even contains misinformation
about mental health. Based on this, it would seem that banning social media could be beneficial to children's mental
health.
But social media can also have positive impacts on children’s mental health by
helping them build community, see themselves represented in different experiences, get
creative, find inspiration for activities, support causes they care about, or find
education and work experiences. Plus, bans would negatively
impact the mental well-being
of those from disadvantaged or marginalised communities in particular, like LGBT+
children
or children with disabilities, by preventing them from accessing spaces where they feel
safe to be themselves.
Now take privacy. The claim is that bans could address
concerns around the exploitation of children's data by limiting the amount of personal data about children collected by
companies.
In fact, bans are extremely intrusive because of the need to identify who is a
child, potentially by checking every user’s age - adults as well as children. Bans could
increase the processing of personal data, raising questions about how age-checking could
be done effectively and what the impact would be on privacy.
And crucially, take children’s right to be heard. It is true that some children think
that social media bans could encourage them to socialise more in person, exercise more,
engage more in hobbies, and break free from addiction and exposure to unrealistic
standards.
But children, just like adults, hold a variety of opinions. Surveys already show that many under-18s are either
clearly opposed to or have very mixed
feelings about bans, feeling that the drawbacks of social media
are not significant enough to justify a ban. It does not seem like these views are being seriously and carefully considered by policymakers.
Meaningful consultation with children in matters which affect them is an absolute must; it is their right, not an afterthought, as
seems to have been the case in Australia.
Are social media bans necessary and proportionate?
All this considered, can we really say bans are a compelling answer to the legitimate
concerns around children and social media? Under human rights law, some children’s rights
(such as free expression and privacy) can be restricted by measures aimed at
respecting other rights (such as protecting children from violence). However, these
measures must be both necessary and proportionate. This forces us to ask if the measures
proposed will be effective in achieving their aim and if there is a way of achieving
that aim that is less restrictive on the rights that the measures limit.
As we have seen above, the necessity and proportionality of bans are extremely doubtful
because they can leave children vulnerable to violence, stifle children’s positive digital
experiences and further isolate those who are disadvantaged and marginalised.
This is happening because children’s rights in their entirety have not been the priority
in policy debates, even though rights are fundamental in helping us think about
what good policy-making looks like.
Where do we go from here?
“To ban or not to ban” is the wrong question - we need to start asking the right
questions instead. Rather than ban-solutionism, the starting point in developing a
rights-respecting, effective response to the impact of social media on children could
be to ask:
- How do we currently understand children’s access to social media based on their age (e.g. 13 under many platforms’ terms and conditions) and evolving capacities?
- What laws do we already have in place and what issues are they meant to address? Are these laws adequate and properly enforced? Do we need new laws at this stage?
- If children do not benefit from ban-solutionism, who does?
- How could a whole-of-society approach that does not look at social media in isolation (covering platforms, parents, health services, educational settings and more) give children full opportunities for protection and connection?
In the coming weeks, we will be exploring all of this in more depth, through
articles and explainers focused on how to understand the current landscape,
how we respond to the challenges of social media with nuance and how we build the
digital world we want for and with children.
This piece is co-published with Defend Digital Me.
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